Thursday, 28 June 2012

Should love follow the logic?

Friends! Obviously you listen and also say; I love you dear or I care you etc. Such dialogues really give calm and comfort to us whenever someone says it to us. No doubt, usually it’s a beautiful moment. According to me, most of the people around the world don’t know the real meaning of love and care.
Okay! I’ve a li’l question for you. Why do we feel  irritation sometime due to someone’s lovely and caring emotions?
Have you any answer?
Now try the next one. Why do you think sometimes that it’s just you, who continuously give scarifies to keep happy your loved one?
I really appreciate your spirit. May God bless you for your good deeds. Now I’m going to tell a little story as a simple example. Read it carefully please!

That was a cold and silent evening of winter. A farmer was coming back to his home from the fields. He was a poor man and he lived with his son (his son was a young and strong personality) in a small hut. He found a passenger on his way. Due to so much cold the passenger unable to keep on the journey. He requested to farmer for shelter. The farmer was a kind person, he took him to the home. After dinner, at the time to sleep, the farmer got worried due to the unavailability of a spare blanket for guest. He decided to give his blanket to guest for a night. His son said; “Papa! Would you mind, if I give my blanket to guest because I’m not a child now. I can easily spend the colder night than you as you are an old man”. The farmer said; “My son! How can a father sleep all the cold night in such a condition that he covered with a blanket and his beloved son spend all the night without blankets? My dear son! You should keep the blanket for you, I would manage”. The son couldn’t give any answer and obey his father. So the farmer slept all the night with comfort because his son was sleeping in the blanket and the son couldn’t sleep as his old father was sleeping in a cold night without any blanket.

Now I’m going to make a conclusion. The entire story is about relation of love and care between a father and a son. But can you reply me that, what kind of this love and care which does not make any logic and sense?
I think its selfishness of a father to get comfortable, because in the relation of love and care you have to care about the comfort of your loved one logically. In a bird's eye view, the above story, describes the obligation of a son and the love of a father for his son. But sorry to say; it’s not a lovely story my friend. I’m not pointing out a specific personality behavior. I just want to make you pay attention as we have to face such a story and themes in our real social life. I don’t want to impose my thought on you.
I just want to say that, please! Love logically and care someone with a sense.
Now at the end of this discussion, what do you think about so called lovely and caring emotions around you? Just change it with your real lovely and caring behavior.


Tuesday, 22 May 2012

Are You Human being?


Hi Friends! I hope you are in good spirit. I’ve a simple question for you, Are You Human? I know, this question is so strange but the question is not important. The important thing is that; why did I ask such a strange question?
So! What do you think?
Okay! I make it easy for you. Few days ago, I visit a public library named QUID-I-AZAM LIBRARY. This well known library is situated in Lahore, Pakistan. For reading something new I chose an old booklet related to psychology subject. The booklet was first published in Egypt and afterword translated in to Urdu language, named; “Shaoor aur La’Shaoor” i.e. “Conscious and Unconscious”. I just read the preface and close it. It really struck my brain badly. The few lines of preface are given below for you;
“It is the nature of a human that he doesn’t accept anything without any evidence. A human must be a keen observer and after overcoming or satisfaction of his skeptical approach, he accepts the reality of anything.”
These few lines from the preface. Now! What do you conclude from above statements? When I observe in my surroundings, I found the lack of this humanly nature. Now a day’s people conclude the result without any required observation. Most of people don’t get the headache to know the real situation but they still conclude the result. Even if we talking about a family relation or family stress management, might be you felt that all discussion among family depend on the activity done by a child or any family member which creates the problem or don’t give the appropriate solution. Instead of this, they should talk about the reason of that activity which is done. It’s a common behavior owned by most of people.
For example, in a break up case, people seldom think that what would be the real and rational cause of break up. If you observe then you must feel that most of the people around you conclude without any rational reason. I can give many examples for my theory but I want that you observe with yourself because you can do anything within the limit of a human being but unfortunately, we don’t know our limits. 
“The lack of keen observation is the base of inhumanly deeds”. We must careful about observations at the time of decision, conclusion and dealing in all social aspects.
No doubt it is one of the basic and vital element of a human being.
Now give me the answer; Are You Human?

Thursday, 1 March 2012

You can do it!



Few days ago! I experienced a very harsh situation by synchronizing some young personalities. Usually youngsters are thought to be the full of energy to done any job and having optimistic spirit to fix any problem. But my experienced was totally against all these. Now I’m going to clear it. Many of the youngsters around me having useless thoughts and have an idea that they can’t do some thing productive or new because they have not resources for it and proper support. There society doesn’t allow them to do some thing productive.
The question is that, where is the young spirit? Where is the young one who builds his place in the society without any support of society? There is not need to be supported by any member of society. Here is the GOD, who supports you if you have a sound and positive idea.
My dear, boys and girls! You can do any thing, in any circumstances. It dose not matter, what’s the situation in your surrounding. If You think you're not pretty? Someone is wishing to be pretty as you. You want more money? People are in poverty. You're hungry? A child is starving. You're chilly? Others are frozen. You just want to die? Most people are striving to live. Don't waste your time on things that you think you don't have because there is always someone out there who needs all that you have. You are not a common one. I don't want to give examples from history. All boys are super man and all girls are wonder girls. Now the question is that, how can you do any thing you want? There is a simple answer, just explore yourself. If any door is closed this is a hurdle in your path of success. Don’t worry! If there is one door closed then finds the other one because you can’t be stop. And please! Don’t give up.
Probably, I could not deliver my opinions and suggestions to you properly. But one thing I know about you, IF YOU WANT, AND THEN YOU CAN CHANGE ANY THING…BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A COMMON PERSONALITY. JUST RISE AND GO AHEAD……