Psychology, Counseling, Family Stress Management, Love & Relations, Positive Thinking, Successful Life Tips
Tuesday, 4 December 2012
Sunday, 8 July 2012
Thursday, 28 June 2012
Should love follow the logic?
Friends! Obviously you
listen and also say; I love you dear or I care you etc. Such dialogues really
give calm and comfort to us whenever someone says it to us. No doubt, usually
it’s a beautiful moment. According
to me, most of the people around the world don’t know the real meaning of love
and care.
Now I’m going to make a conclusion. The entire story is about relation of love and care between a father and a son. But can you reply me that, what kind of this love and care which does not make any logic and sense?
Okay! I’ve a li’l
question for you. Why do we feel irritation
sometime due to someone’s lovely and caring emotions?
Have you any answer?
Now try the next one. Why
do you think sometimes that it’s just you, who continuously give scarifies to
keep happy your loved one?
I really appreciate your
spirit. May God bless you for your good deeds. Now I’m going to tell a little
story as a simple example. Read it carefully please!
That was a cold and
silent evening of winter. A farmer was coming back to his home from the fields.
He was a poor man and he lived with his son (his son was a young and strong
personality) in a small hut. He found a passenger on his way. Due to so much
cold the passenger unable to keep on the journey. He requested to farmer for
shelter. The farmer was a kind person, he took him to the home. After dinner,
at the time to sleep, the farmer got worried due to the unavailability of a
spare blanket for guest. He decided to give his blanket to guest for a night.
His son said; “Papa! Would you mind, if I give my blanket to guest because I’m
not a child now. I can easily spend the colder night than you as you are an old
man”. The farmer said; “My son! How can a father sleep all the cold night in
such a condition that he covered with a blanket and his beloved son spend all
the night without blankets? My dear son! You should keep the blanket for you, I
would manage”. The son couldn’t give any answer and obey his father. So the
farmer slept all the night with comfort because his son was sleeping in the
blanket and the son couldn’t sleep as his old father was sleeping in a cold
night without any blanket.
Now I’m going to make a conclusion. The entire story is about relation of love and care between a father and a son. But can you reply me that, what kind of this love and care which does not make any logic and sense?
I think its selfishness
of a father to get comfortable, because
in the relation of love and care you have to care about the comfort of your
loved one logically. In a bird's
eye view, the above story, describes the obligation of a son and the love of a
father for his son. But sorry to say; it’s not a lovely story my friend. I’m
not pointing out a specific personality behavior. I just want to make you pay
attention as we have to face such a story and themes in our real social life. I
don’t want to impose my thought on you.
I just want to say that,
please! Love logically and care someone with a sense.
Now at the end of this discussion, what do you
think about so called lovely and caring emotions around you? Just change it
with your real lovely and caring behavior.
Tuesday, 22 May 2012
Are You Human being?
Hi Friends! I hope you are in good spirit. I’ve a simple
question for you, Are You Human? I know, this question is so strange but the
question is not important. The important thing is that; why did I ask such a
strange question?
So! What do you think?
Okay! I make it easy for you. Few days ago, I visit a public
library named QUID-I-AZAM LIBRARY. This well known library is situated in
Lahore, Pakistan. For reading something new I chose an old booklet related to psychology
subject. The booklet was first published in Egypt and afterword translated in
to Urdu language, named; “Shaoor aur La’Shaoor” i.e. “Conscious and
Unconscious”. I just read the preface and close it. It really struck my brain
badly. The few lines of preface are given below for you;
“It is the nature of a human that he doesn’t accept anything
without any evidence. A human must be a keen observer and after overcoming or
satisfaction of his skeptical approach, he accepts the reality of anything.”
These few lines from the preface. Now! What do you conclude
from above statements? When I observe in my surroundings, I found the lack of
this humanly nature. Now a day’s people conclude the result without any
required observation. Most of people don’t get the headache to know the real
situation but they still conclude the result. Even if we talking about a family
relation or family stress management, might be you felt that all discussion
among family depend on the activity done by a child or any family member which
creates the problem or don’t give the appropriate solution. Instead of this,
they should talk about the reason of that activity which is done. It’s a common
behavior owned by most of people.
For example, in a break up case, people seldom think that
what would be the real and rational cause of break up. If you observe then you
must feel that most of the people around you conclude without any rational
reason. I can give many examples for my theory but I want that you observe with
yourself because you can do anything within the limit of a human being but
unfortunately, we don’t know our limits.
“The lack of keen
observation is the base of inhumanly deeds”. We must careful about
observations at the time of decision, conclusion and dealing in all social
aspects.
No doubt it is one of the basic and vital element of a human
being.
Now give me the answer; Are You Human?
Wednesday, 18 April 2012
Thursday, 1 March 2012
You can do it!
Few days ago! I experienced a very harsh situation by
synchronizing some young personalities. Usually youngsters are thought to be
the full of energy to done any job and having optimistic spirit to fix any
problem. But my experienced was totally against all these. Now I’m going to
clear it. Many of the youngsters around me having useless thoughts and have an
idea that they can’t do some thing productive or new because they have not
resources for it and proper support. There society doesn’t allow them to do
some thing productive.
The question is that, where is the young spirit? Where is
the young one who builds his place in the society without any support of society? There
is not need to be supported by any member of society. Here is the GOD, who supports
you if you have a sound and positive idea.
My dear, boys and girls! You can do any thing, in any
circumstances. It dose not matter, what’s the situation in your surrounding. If You think you're not pretty? Someone is wishing to be pretty
as you. You want more money? People are in poverty. You're hungry? A child is
starving. You're chilly? Others are frozen. You just want to die? Most people
are striving to live. Don't waste your time on things that you think you don't
have because there is always someone out there who needs all that you have. You
are not a common one. I don't want to give examples from history. All boys are super man and all girls are wonder girls. Now
the question is that, how can you do any thing you want? There is a simple
answer, just explore yourself. If any door is closed this is a hurdle in your
path of success. Don’t worry! If there is one door closed then finds the other
one because you can’t be stop. And please! Don’t give up.
Probably, I could not deliver my opinions and suggestions to
you properly. But one thing I know about you, IF YOU WANT, AND THEN YOU CAN
CHANGE ANY THING…BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A COMMON PERSONALITY. JUST RISE AND GO
AHEAD……
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